One of my Heart-centered Goddesses,Teresa, is holding a telesummit.  I have listened to several already n anticipate tuning into for the rest.  Even though it already began you can catch replays of the interviews that have concluded n you can purchase the series for your own library.
It's a FREE telesummit that started Oct 12th and runs for a month. It looks amazing and I thought you'd like to know about it! <3 BE that brilliant, gorgeous, talented and fabulous Goddess you're meant to be!
You should check it out now! http://www.FindYourWingsAndSoar.com

I absolutely love this coach, Christian Pankhurst! 
Talk about keeping it simple....
AND it is all for F*r*e*e.....so please, don't miss out on this
I seldom promote for others AND just can't resist
pass up sharing with you the value this man delivers!

Every once n a while someone comes onto the coaching scene n shares a
game-changing framework for personal change n transformation.
That someone is Christian Pankhursrt, 
if you've not yet signed up for
his complementary coach training series, which starts on Monday, then
do so now:

CLICK HERE TO REGISTER NOW:
http://www.christianpankhurst.com/jv.html?w=aaa1&p=SAFCCC

In fact if you're currently a coach, trainer, facilitator,
healer or messenger, you
must hear what he has to say, as I believe
he can help you become world class
in your field.

The beauty of his work is that is actually
doesn't matter what 'field' you are in
as his model is not so much reliant on 'techniques'
but instead, focuses on how
to access the amazing resource of your own
'Heart Intelligence' so everything you do
comes from a deeper place of authenticity, power and influence.
And isn't that what you want? To create more
change in others n to live and lead by
example, so you're so much in demand you need a waiting list?

CLICK HERE TO REGISTER NOW:
http://www.christianpankhurst.com/jv.html?w=aaa1&p=SAFCCC

But, what's even more exciting is the possibility
for you if you are just
starting out or want to create a career as a
Heart Centered life coach or
facilitator.
Christian's message n work will give you a
powerful step-by-step
framework to assist you in getting the best
results when coaching others n you'll learn how
to read the energy n emotion of others to
faciliate deep and lasting transformation.

If you have a dream of stepping out into the
coaching or facilitating world,
then you need to learn from one of the best in the industry.

CLICK HERE TO REGISTER NOW:
http://www.christianpankhurst.com/jv.html?w=aaa1&p=SAFCCC

The trainings will be offered LIVE online n streamed
from his 7-day Vacation
retreat in Costa Rica. It starts on Monday,
so register now before it closes.

Sincerely in Spirit,
Sharon

P.S. Remember - this is a COMPLIMENTARY training, so you have nothing
to lose by checking it out.

P.P.S. I heard from Christian that he's offering 24 hour replays of each training
so you can watch the video broadcasts in your own time, no matter where
you live in the world.

 

Merriam-Webster's online dictionary offers as one of its definitions for closure:
"an often comforting or satisfying sense of finality <victims needing closure>; also : something (as a satisfying ending) that provides such a sense."

When I suffered a loss I knew I needed closure yet to me that meant that I needed to move from my suffering to a place of acceptance not to a place of ending.  Physical death is an ending because when someone or something such as a pet dies once taken away it can no longer be physically touched. That in no way would be a satisfying ending for me.  I'd only see a "satisfied ending" relative if it was a piece of trash.  Comforting on the other hand could apply in regards to trying to find comfort because of the loss but not from the loss.
Victims need closure because unless they can rid themselves from the mental replay of the event {even if the perpetrator is brought to justice} they will be tormented repeatedly n endlessly.  In this instance ending is appropiate.
A bit confusing I admit, albeit here's my point. 
My belief is that closure is whatever the bereaved needs in order to heal the hurt of the loss.  Thus, grieving is very individualize.
No one knows when grief might show up,because life is a series of unknows.  Personally, my worse fears revolve around the unknown.  When something is happening I am much better at handling it as opposed to not knowing what to expect.  The reason I have learned to handle anxiety/worry with trusting that "thy will be done", everything is meant to be etc. philosophy. So in the meantime a very important lesson....Love, be grateful, and more importantly demonstrate both to those you Love everyday.  I still kiss n hug all my "adult kids" goodbye every time I see them....just in case.
If you lose someone due to death, a broken heart or the ending to anything reach out for help before it gets worse.
Sincerely in Spirit,
Sharon

The following is something I wrote when I realized I was grieving from an unfulfilled relationship.

THE LAST TIME
copyright ©  Aug. 21, 1999 Sharon Fisher  
I don't remember
the last time
we had an intimate conversation
shared our hopes n dreams
or revealed personal feelings.  
I don't remember
the last time
I reached to touch your hand,
or walked over n wrapped my arms around you
or spoke aloud "I love you".  
I do remember
the last time
I wished I had apologized
for the hurt I've caused
from needing you
when you weren't there
to fill my voids.  
lacking strength
to express myself
I do remember
the last time
I saw your handsome face
so serene n forgiving.
THE LAST TIME
as the lid to your coffin
CLOSED.

It is my belief that Nina Collins How We Became Friends Again www.huffingtonpost.com  has learned a very valuable lesson from relationships. Specifically, I infer that she has learned about the relationship with herself...how to work through her emotional attachment n detachment with her marriage partner...to work through anger, fear, hurt etc to eventually once again feel LOVE, the real connection, married or not. In otherwords, releasing to move on with her life.
I greatly appreciate the effort,inner work,awareness, strength, motivation etc that this required. It's one thing for a couple to have to endure the marriage ending AND it's another when children's hearts are involved. Children suffer in so many ways when they are used as pawns. The "adults" are so busy being defensive that they don't realize how empowering they could be by learning more efficient ways of communicating their needs n wants, thus preventing so much heart break for the whole family.
AND that's just the beginning as there is still the resentment, guilt n forgiveness work to be done or else broken hearts won't heal AND {maybe not until years later} these energy blockers could manifest physically as physical heart issues or cancer.
Life is one endless road of processes! Sometimes it takes support to travel these lonely roads. So don't take a detour to unknown territory reach out for help with these needed steps to pave a new smooth traveling highway to PEACE!
If you are hurting as the result of a relationship, please, seek out www.ComfortCoachingConnection.com
Sincerely in Spirit,
Sharon

ALWAYS N FOREVER
© 12/17/07 Sharon A. Fisher

My mind wanders back....
to yester years....                                                           
before the rude awakening....
while the darkness of nightfall
eliminates the chance of sunshine
to heal the pain.  

My body in one place....
My mind another....
My heart being held....
in the hands of my lover.   

I thought I gave you a piece of my heart....
Now, I know I gave you a piece of my soul....
in the past....
here and now....
in the future....
always n forever....
you are with me my Love!

Christian Pankhurst just posted an INCREDIBLE recording from
his live video broadcast last night that you can watch without
opting-in or anything.

http://www.christianpankhurst.com/jv.html?w=aabroadcast&p=SAFCCC

It's called "8 Insights to Intimacy" and it's packed with great
content, training and FAQ.

Since it doesn't cost anything I don't think it will be up for
long so check it out.

In this live video broadcast he covers:

-- Why you have a deep seated belief you're not enough and
how to move into your authentic value.
-- The critical steps to disarming your defences <Christian's spelling> and letting
more of who you are out, and letting others in.
-- Why independance <Christian's spelling> is NOT healthy for intimacy
-- How to connect to your JUICE.
-- Why group work is VITAL to your growth
-- The power of amplification, embodiment & entrainment.


It's impossible to describe how much Christian covered in
these 60 minutes. Just watch it - trust me.

This will take your relationship with your self and others
to the next level.

Enjoy the broadcast!
http://www.christianpankhurst.com/jv.html?w=aabroadcast&p=SAFCCC

Sincerely in Spirit,
Sharon

Seems like one program keeps topping the other as you will see when you find out all the aspects he covers.
 Christian Pankhurst just opened enrollment to his Accelerated
Awakening Coaching Program!
You have to see this - the lifetime value of this training will blow
your mind:
http://www.christianpankhurst.com/jv.html?w=aahsp4&p=SAFCCC
This is the most comprehensive training you could ever find
on how to connect to your heart, manifest effortlessly and
remove the resistance that holds you back.
YOU can access your vast hidden resources and transform
your health, wealth & happiness. Christian shows you how
with Accelerated Awakening.
Over 1,000 people have posted RAVING comments about
the complimentary videos Christian has been sending out.
But they have no IDEA how much more there is to discover
beneath the surface to support you in mastering your
emotional, energetic and mental state and live life fearlessly
from your heart.
That's why Chrisitan has arrived on the scene so quickly.
His innovative strategies, concepts and coaching help you
find your true authentic power so you can get more of who
you are OUT and let more of life IN.
Christian totally changed his life around using the powerful
methods he teaches in this program. He cured his asthma
when the doctors said nothing could be done and broke free
from his numbing depression and panic attacks after watching
his best friend get brutally beaten. How?
Now Christian is teaching you step-by-step how to get started.
Check it out:
http://www.christianpankhurst.com/jv.html?w=aahsp4&p=SAFCCC
The world is changing and a new wave of heart-centered,
heart directed leaders are emerging to have a monumental
impact on the times that lay ahead. Isn't it time you stepped
away from self-doubt and stepped into your full greatness?
Why not master Heart Intelligence, and not only turn your
own life around, but lead others to do the same?
Why not TRUST in your heart to guide you and to show you
the way to experiencing profound joy, connection and juice?
YOU can do this.
I know Christian's program can help you do it. That's why
his retreats have sold out all over the world and why nearly
everyone comes back to continue their journey. There are
people who book out their entire year's schedule in advance
to not miss a single training - his guidance is THAT good.
Make the choice today to get started. Don't wait another
year to get all of who you are out and make a difference.
I've heard that Christian's program will be open for only
a very limited window, because he's including for the first
and last time ever his SMALL GROUP residential 4 day live
retreat. Only 30 people MAX per event and there are
only a limited amount of weekends available (he does them
all over the world).
So go enroll now:
http://www.christianpankhurst.com/jv.html?w=aahsp4&p=SAFCCC
Here's to your new life
Sincerely in Spirit,
Sharon

HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY!
Hopefully each n everyone has or had someone with whom to shar' loving moments, thoughts, conversations, emails, IMs today!  If not know that you are loved, regardless!  Here's believing LOVE'S energy in some way shape or form finds you today even if only via this blog!
Meanwhile, if today is the day that really hurt, please know it doesn't have to be that way.... your pain no longer needs to be prolonged....please, reach out for help by contacting SharonAFisher@ComfortCoachingConnection n begin the process to HEAL YOUR BROKEN HEART WITH SELF-LOVE.

Poem:   IF YOU LEAVE ME © 1999 Sharon A. Fisher

IF YOU LEAVE ME

If you leave me;
you might as well take my eyes
for I won't need them to see another's handsome face.

If you leave me;
you might as well take my arms
for I won't need them to hold any other man.

If you leave me;
you might as well take my voice
for I won't need to softly whisper I love you.

If you leave me;
you might as well take my mind
for I won't be able to think of anything else.

If you leave me;
you might as well take my heart
for I won't need it to love anyone again.

If you leave me;
you might as well take my soul
for I won't want to exist without you!

POETRY CONTEST
1  "h" Word description of poem
1  "i" Word description of poem
1 "d" Word description of poem
Words must match poet's chosen word form.
{e.g. motivate vs. motivation}
Winner receives a free full Comfort Coaching session.
Winner will be notified via email.  Confidentiality prevents public announcement of winner.
1st. Entry to get all three words correct wins.
1 Entry per person.
Must be 18yrs. old or older to enter contest.
Last day to enter is 2/14/11