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"One day you will wake up and there won't be any more time to do the things you've always wanted to do. Do it now."  Paulo Coelho

10/16/2013

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What might result from this?  Resentment, guilt, blame etc.????
Louise L. Hay writes in You Can Heal Your Life:  "I find that resentment, criticism, guilt and fear cause more problems than anything else.  Resentment that is long held can eat away at the body and become the dis-ease we call cancer. Criticism as a permanent habit can often lead to arthritis in the body. Guilt always looks for punishment and punishment creates pain."
No wonder so many are plagued with serious health issues!
This all accumulates to a stressful life filled with suffering and pain. 

Is that what you choose? 
Would you prefer to choose to "Live Your Life in Holistic Harmony"?
What do you want to do to free yourself from those emotions and circumstances?

Maybe, you prefer popping pills, drowning in alcohol, feeling worthless without purpose of direction in life, existing without Self Love. Personally, I have chosen Personal Peace.  Can you think of a better alternative?
I highly suggest Emotion Code....learn it yourself or get support from a Certified Emotion Code practitioner.
In the meantime:
What one thing can you do right NOW, today so that 
one day you won't wake without time to do the things you've always wanted to do? 
If not NOW....When will you listen to your inner voice....Your Soul's Wisdom:
                         {I hope something in my poem speaks to you}

Soul's Wisdom

12/3/12© Sharon A. Fisher

Moments of Inspiration

while driving down the road,

walking in the woods,

working around the house.


Fleeing moments of intense passion

of want n desire.

Brief inspired messages

to create a magnificent piece of art,

write a moving manuscript,

create a life of purpose.


Ignited feelings of excitement

to an otherwise routine day,

Stirrings of anticipation

left behind from yester-years

along with unfulfilled dreams.

Set aside till someday;

SOMEDAY

when the children are grown

or retirement comes,

when the personalized list of to dos is complete

when more time n money is available,

when feeling not so weary.

SOMEDAY

When is someday going to arrive?

When will these inspirations,

eruptions during day dreams

or while focused on mindless tasks

find place in a planned day

or scheduled week?


Off to they go to the back of the mind

soon forgotten.

Whispers from the Soul drowned out by need.

Once again, creative self-expression not allowed

even though directed from the Higher Self.

When will humans' agendas match their Soul's?

SOMEDAY

When choice is to Trust the momentary inspiration,

when it occurs,

rather than postponing for a more convenient time.

When Spirit moves immediate action in the present moment.

Listen to Soul's Wisdom

It's calling YOU

to Consciously co-create Personal Peace.

It's guiding YOU

toward Prosperity n Abundance.

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Love

8/27/2012

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Picture
Photo Credit to "It's a Sweet Life"
I'd like to edit the poster on the left a bit to read: "who loved you when you BELIEVED you weren't very lovable." and add "if they really LOVED you they would love you no matter what."  and "if you loved yourself it probably wouldn't have mattered."
"Who loved you when you weren't very lovable means you are only lovable under certain conditions.  That is called conditional love.  Seems like the kind of love that needs to be earned. It goes like this; if you do this I'll love you.  If you don't act like ____ I'll love you.  I think it is better stated:  I may not like what you did, said or how you behaved AND I still love you, regardless. It boils down to ACCEPTANCE and ACKNOWLEDGMENT, to name a few. 
  What about this:  The most memorable people in your life will be the ones you remember as those who hurt you?  Do you think that a child from an abusive home is going to remember their abuser as loving them?  Maybe yes and maybe no. It may be argued. Nevertheless, children are very resilient and forgiving, and each handles abuse differently. I'll bet that a great number of them see the most memorable people as not being very loving AND as not believing they were or are very lovable.  Bottom line is that both the abuser and abused child would greatly benefit from Self Love. Then Personal Peace {the greatest benefit of working with Comfort Coaching} could exist for all! 

    My reality is that if you truly love someone you don't stop loving them.  You may not be "in" the relationship with a person any longer.  The person maybe near or far away. You may be AWARE that an ongoing relationship is no longer in your or their best interest. None of these scenarios mean you can't still love them. 
     I don't have A memorable person in my life.  I AM blessed by the love from everyone who has touched my life, because I believe that each crossed my path for a "Reason Season or Lifetime" {see poem below author unknown}.  If they don't see it from my perspective.... that's their business....MY business first and foremost is Self Love!  If I love myself I am sure to find love everywhere and in everyone I meet and if they don't find me lovable....well perhaps some healing would be in order. 
Imagine: What if everyone knew about Self Love? What if everyone was AWARE that they are the person for whom they have been searching? What might the world be like then?
I am creating a new poster which reads:
I AM the most memorable person in my life
I AM always Lovable
because I was created
from Love
for Love
to Love
I AM LOVE!

      If this seems difficult to grasp you may want to have a complimentary chat with me.  Just contact me at www.ComfortCoachingConnection.com.                                    


                                             Reason, Season, or Lifetime
                                                    author unknown

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
When you figure out which one it is,
you will know what to do for each person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON,
it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty;
to provide you with guidance and support.
to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend, and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.

Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time,
this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die.  Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desired fulfilled;their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON,
because your turn has come to share, grow or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it. It is real.  But only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons;
things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson,love the person,
and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

   

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Closure

4/25/2011

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Merriam-Webster's online dictionary offers as one of its definitions for closure:
"an often comforting or satisfying sense of finality <victims needing closure>; also : something (as a satisfying ending) that provides such a sense."

When I suffered a loss I knew I needed closure yet to me that meant that I needed to move from my suffering to a place of acceptance not to a place of ending.  Physical death is an ending because when someone or something such as a pet dies once taken away it can no longer be physically touched. That in no way would be a satisfying ending for me.  I'd only see a "satisfied ending" relative if it was a piece of trash.  Comforting on the other hand could apply in regards to trying to find comfort because of the loss but not from the loss.
Victims need closure because unless they can rid themselves from the mental replay of the event {even if the perpetrator is brought to justice} they will be tormented repeatedly n endlessly.  In this instance ending is appropiate.
A bit confusing I admit, albeit here's my point. 
My belief is that closure is whatever the bereaved needs in order to heal the hurt of the loss.  Thus, grieving is very individualize.
No one knows when grief might show up,because life is a series of unknows.  Personally, my worse fears revolve around the unknown.  When something is happening I am much better at handling it as opposed to not knowing what to expect.  The reason I have learned to handle anxiety/worry with trusting that "thy will be done", everything is meant to be etc. philosophy. So in the meantime a very important lesson....Love, be grateful, and more importantly demonstrate both to those you Love everyday.  I still kiss n hug all my "adult kids" goodbye every time I see them....just in case.
If you lose someone due to death, a broken heart or the ending to anything reach out for help before it gets worse.
Sincerely in Spirit,
Sharon

The following is something I wrote when I realized I was grieving from an unfulfilled relationship.

THE LAST TIME
copyright ©  Aug. 21, 1999 Sharon Fisher  
I don't remember
the last time
we had an intimate conversation
shared our hopes n dreams
or revealed personal feelings.  
I don't remember
the last time
I reached to touch your hand,
or walked over n wrapped my arms around you
or spoke aloud "I love you".  
I do remember
the last time
I wished I had apologized
for the hurt I've caused
from needing you
when you weren't there
to fill my voids.  
lacking strength
to express myself
I do remember
the last time
I saw your handsome face
so serene n forgiving.
THE LAST TIME
as the lid to your coffin
CLOSED.
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POEM: ALWAYS N FOREVER

4/14/2011

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ALWAYS N FOREVER
© 12/17/07 Sharon A. Fisher

My mind wanders back....
to yester years....                                                           
before the rude awakening....
while the darkness of nightfall
eliminates the chance of sunshine
to heal the pain.  

My body in one place....
My mind another....
My heart being held....
in the hands of my lover.   

I thought I gave you a piece of my heart....
Now, I know I gave you a piece of my soul....
in the past....
here and now....
in the future....
always n forever....
you are with me my Love!


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Poem: ALONE

4/8/2011

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                         ALONE 
      
copyright © 2000 Sharon A. Fisher
Confusion echoes within the empty rooms;
Teasing, whining, crying, laughing.
My stomach growls from hunger
Knowing mealtime is solitude tonight,
Experiencing a greater hunger than for food.  
Tasks are not enough to busy
 time intended for completion.
Quietness robs their focus
allowing my mind to escape
to analyze the how and whys.  
Peace of knowing meant to be's
Beyond my intentions keeps
Guilt from overwhelming,
Self-pity from devouring
Designating a place in time......
           ALONE 
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\\\"The Dash\\\" by Linda Ellis, Mac Anderson

8/13/2010

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I hope you all can spare 2:47 mins. today to view the above mentioned mini, but powerfully moving movie.  If so inclined click on the Nightingale banner on the "What" page of my website to order, if not for yourself as a gift for someone you love.
THE REASON FOR THE DASH 
©2010 Sharon A. Fisher

The Birth
The Death
  What about all the rest?
 
 
The Beginning
The End
  What about the in between?
  
The Past
 The Future
What about the meantime?  
What about now?
What can you do?
    What can you say?  
To someone you love,
touch them in an emotional way;
open your heart 
ask forgiveness
accept apologies 
 
understand a friend

speak a kind word
lend a helping hand  
acknowledge a stranger
listen for a lesson
respect the worthy existence  

Life's dynamic nature changes in a flash

Unknown fills every moment
So don't wait to express 
         
            THY LOVE!
 
            
My belief,
THE REASON FOR "THE DASH"

With apologies,
Seeking forgiveness
from Loved Ones n friends
I've disappointed or hurt
Love,
Sharon/Mom
xoxox
©2010 Sharon A. Fisher

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