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"Picture Worth a Thousand Words" Reaction:Thoughts, Feelings, Emotions

4/4/2014

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Photo credit: The New Vision
Before you continue reading any further, I invite you to recall your 1st reaction {thoughts, feelings, emotions} to this picture & jot it down.

Comments made on Facebook are very interesting and show how effective a visual is. Actually, the ones I saw didn't match mine at all. Here is my take, my reaction to the picture above: 
My first reaction was not that it was meant to be funny {I wondered how difficult it must be for the motorcyclist to drive safely}, nor was the cow being hurt {I figured its tail was being held so it would not fly up and obscure the driver's vision; its rear legs were tied so as not to flop onto the road and get injured} the cow's face certainly does not show signs of being stressed, nor was this awkward undertaking a joy ride for either the driver or the cow.  What came up for me was: What a very compassionate motorcyclist, he found a cow along the road {I seriously doubt he is stealing it}that may be injured but definitely not in a pasture where it belongs.  The rescuer is so daring and brave to help this poor innocent creature & return it to a safe place,hopefully its home away from traffic.  Amazing the conclusions one comes to about a pic!  It is so telling about what is inside us... & how we judge what is right or wrong, good or bad etc.  Its like seeing the cup empty, full, 1/2 full etc. Its about our personal perception.  After a 2nd look at the pic I thought: "Wonder where this pic was taken as it appears the traffic is going the wrong way." See what I mean, I just did it again myself LOL.
When we become the observer of ourselves we gain a great deal of
AWARENESS! AWARENESS about any of our MEPS {my coined term for Mental~Emotional~ Physical ~ Spiritual aspects of self} is the 1st step to transformation. Looking at a picture is one of the simplest tools one can use to gain greater insight to oneself. Coach's challenge if you choose to accept: Look at a picture that is very appealing to your aesthetic sense when you want to find comfort or Personal Peace. Look at a graphically disturbing picture if you are struggling with unpleasant feelings or emotions to stimulate the fullness of the feeling in order to release it. As you do either verbally aloud express what you think and feel. Keep doing it until it is gone. You'll know when it is gone because all the "negative"/ fear energy will feel like it has shifted to one of "positive"/Love energy.  Acknowledge and honor yourself  for whatever and ALL that showed up during this exercise for it is ALL part of YOU rather you like it or not. This ACKNOWLEGEMENT is a stepping stone toward ACCEPTANCE {Self Love} !
I hope this blog posting ALLOWED you more AWARENESS to your inner world! I pray this post inspires you to take a few minutes to send Blessings to all creatures especially to those without homes or from abusive ones. For any of my animal loving readers; I hope you didn't get any trapped emotions from viewing the pic at the start of this blog.  If so, I suggest you take the coach's challenge seriously into action and fully deal with the thoughts,feelings & emotions that came up so they can be released. If you have difficulty or need support in doing so I AM here to assist.
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If my human friends choose to only ACCEPT their point of view, I suggest taking a closer look at some core beliefs that surfaced while reading or became evident while viewing this picture or for not even considering the coach's challenge. Examination of these offer valuable information as to what is holding you back in various areas of your life. Remember,an open mind and Heart are the gateways to possibilities!
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 Regardless of your choices, I choose to hold all creatures in the Love of my Heart no matter where that is on your journey in life!  Knowing that as I continue to Spiritually evolve so shall YOU for we are ONE with ALL that is!
Sincerely in Spirit,
Sharon
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Prose vs Poetry

8/24/2012

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Poetry is concise, which is why I usually express myself in that form of writing.  Sometimes there is more that needs to be said and prose fits that bill.  So for once I chose prose, ok so I threw in some poetry as well since two specific poems fit in very nicely with the subject matter, the context of the prose. 
I just had the honor, in August, to be published in one of my advertiser's magazines and want to share in hopes that you may take away an aha, lesson or feel some emotion from within yourself as you read the articles found by clicking the link below.
Celebrating my newly published prose with some poetry throw in. p3, 32-34
http://www.earthstarmag.com/docs/207-AS12.pdf Please, take a moment to check it out. I Love Earth Star Magazine!  Thank you Tim for seeing the value of my words!

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10/17/2011

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 One of my Heart-centered Goddesses,Teresa, is holding a telesummit.  I have listened to several already n anticipate tuning into for the rest.  Even though it already began you can catch replays of the interviews that have concluded n you can purchase the series for your own library.
It's a FREE telesummit that started Oct 12th and runs for a month. It looks amazing and I thought you'd like to know about it! <3 BE that brilliant, gorgeous, talented and fabulous Goddess you're meant to be!
You should check it out now! http://www.FindYourWingsAndSoar.com
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Closure

4/25/2011

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Merriam-Webster's online dictionary offers as one of its definitions for closure:
"an often comforting or satisfying sense of finality <victims needing closure>; also : something (as a satisfying ending) that provides such a sense."

When I suffered a loss I knew I needed closure yet to me that meant that I needed to move from my suffering to a place of acceptance not to a place of ending.  Physical death is an ending because when someone or something such as a pet dies once taken away it can no longer be physically touched. That in no way would be a satisfying ending for me.  I'd only see a "satisfied ending" relative if it was a piece of trash.  Comforting on the other hand could apply in regards to trying to find comfort because of the loss but not from the loss.
Victims need closure because unless they can rid themselves from the mental replay of the event {even if the perpetrator is brought to justice} they will be tormented repeatedly n endlessly.  In this instance ending is appropiate.
A bit confusing I admit, albeit here's my point. 
My belief is that closure is whatever the bereaved needs in order to heal the hurt of the loss.  Thus, grieving is very individualize.
No one knows when grief might show up,because life is a series of unknows.  Personally, my worse fears revolve around the unknown.  When something is happening I am much better at handling it as opposed to not knowing what to expect.  The reason I have learned to handle anxiety/worry with trusting that "thy will be done", everything is meant to be etc. philosophy. So in the meantime a very important lesson....Love, be grateful, and more importantly demonstrate both to those you Love everyday.  I still kiss n hug all my "adult kids" goodbye every time I see them....just in case.
If you lose someone due to death, a broken heart or the ending to anything reach out for help before it gets worse.
Sincerely in Spirit,
Sharon

The following is something I wrote when I realized I was grieving from an unfulfilled relationship.

THE LAST TIME
copyright ©  Aug. 21, 1999 Sharon Fisher  
I don't remember
the last time
we had an intimate conversation
shared our hopes n dreams
or revealed personal feelings.  
I don't remember
the last time
I reached to touch your hand,
or walked over n wrapped my arms around you
or spoke aloud "I love you".  
I do remember
the last time
I wished I had apologized
for the hurt I've caused
from needing you
when you weren't there
to fill my voids.  
lacking strength
to express myself
I do remember
the last time
I saw your handsome face
so serene n forgiving.
THE LAST TIME
as the lid to your coffin
CLOSED.
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Prevention for Broken Hearts during Divorce

4/15/2011

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It is my belief that Nina Collins How We Became Friends Again www.huffingtonpost.com  has learned a very valuable lesson from relationships. Specifically, I infer that she has learned about the relationship with herself...how to work through her emotional attachment n detachment with her marriage partner...to work through anger, fear, hurt etc to eventually once again feel LOVE, the real connection, married or not. In otherwords, releasing to move on with her life.
I greatly appreciate the effort,inner work,awareness, strength, motivation etc that this required. It's one thing for a couple to have to endure the marriage ending AND it's another when children's hearts are involved. Children suffer in so many ways when they are used as pawns. The "adults" are so busy being defensive that they don't realize how empowering they could be by learning more efficient ways of communicating their needs n wants, thus preventing so much heart break for the whole family.
AND that's just the beginning as there is still the resentment, guilt n forgiveness work to be done or else broken hearts won't heal AND {maybe not until years later} these energy blockers could manifest physically as physical heart issues or cancer.
Life is one endless road of processes! Sometimes it takes support to travel these lonely roads. So don't take a detour to unknown territory reach out for help with these needed steps to pave a new smooth traveling highway to PEACE!
If you are hurting as the result of a relationship, please, seek out www.ComfortCoachingConnection.com
Sincerely in Spirit,
Sharon
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      POEM: ALWAYS N FOREVER

      4/14/2011

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      ALWAYS N FOREVER
      © 12/17/07 Sharon A. Fisher

      My mind wanders back....
      to yester years....                                                           
      before the rude awakening....
      while the darkness of nightfall
      eliminates the chance of sunshine
      to heal the pain.  

      My body in one place....
      My mind another....
      My heart being held....
      in the hands of my lover.   

      I thought I gave you a piece of my heart....
      Now, I know I gave you a piece of my soul....
      in the past....
      here and now....
      in the future....
      always n forever....
      you are with me my Love!


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      Poem: ALONE

      4/8/2011

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                               ALONE 
            
      copyright © 2000 Sharon A. Fisher
      Confusion echoes within the empty rooms;
      Teasing, whining, crying, laughing.
      My stomach growls from hunger
      Knowing mealtime is solitude tonight,
      Experiencing a greater hunger than for food.  
      Tasks are not enough to busy
       time intended for completion.
      Quietness robs their focus
      allowing my mind to escape
      to analyze the how and whys.  
      Peace of knowing meant to be's
      Beyond my intentions keeps
      Guilt from overwhelming,
      Self-pity from devouring
      Designating a place in time......
                 ALONE 
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      Christian Pankhurst's "8 Insights to Intimacy"

      3/15/2011

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      Christian Pankhurst just posted an INCREDIBLE recording from
      his live video broadcast last night that you can watch without
      opting-in or anything.

      http://www.christianpankhurst.com/jv.html?w=aabroadcast&p=SAFCCC

      It's called "8 Insights to Intimacy" and it's packed with great
      content, training and FAQ.

      Since it doesn't cost anything I don't think it will be up for
      long so check it out.

      In this live video broadcast he covers:

      -- Why you have a deep seated belief you're not enough and
      how to move into your authentic value.
      -- The critical steps to disarming your defences <Christian's spelling> and letting
      more of who you are out, and letting others in.
      -- Why independance <Christian's spelling> is NOT healthy for intimacy
      -- How to connect to your JUICE.
      -- Why group work is VITAL to your growth
      -- The power of amplification, embodiment & entrainment.


      It's impossible to describe how much Christian covered in
      these 60 minutes. Just watch it - trust me.

      This will take your relationship with your self and others
      to the next level.

      Enjoy the broadcast!
      http://www.christianpankhurst.com/jv.html?w=aabroadcast&p=SAFCCC

      Sincerely in Spirit,
      Sharon



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      Fantastic Program....Fantastic Price!

      3/11/2011

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      Seems like one program keeps topping the other as you will see when you find out all the aspects he covers.
       Christian Pankhurst just opened enrollment to his Accelerated
      Awakening Coaching Program!
      You have to see this - the lifetime value of this training will blow
      your mind:
      http://www.christianpankhurst.com/jv.html?w=aahsp4&p=SAFCCC
      This is the most comprehensive training you could ever find
      on how to connect to your heart, manifest effortlessly and
      remove the resistance that holds you back.
      YOU can access your vast hidden resources and transform
      your health, wealth & happiness. Christian shows you how
      with Accelerated Awakening.
      Over 1,000 people have posted RAVING comments about
      the complimentary videos Christian has been sending out.
      But they have no IDEA how much more there is to discover
      beneath the surface to support you in mastering your
      emotional, energetic and mental state and live life fearlessly
      from your heart.
      That's why Chrisitan has arrived on the scene so quickly.
      His innovative strategies, concepts and coaching help you
      find your true authentic power so you can get more of who
      you are OUT and let more of life IN.
      Christian totally changed his life around using the powerful
      methods he teaches in this program. He cured his asthma
      when the doctors said nothing could be done and broke free
      from his numbing depression and panic attacks after watching
      his best friend get brutally beaten. How?
      Now Christian is teaching you step-by-step how to get started.
      Check it out:
      http://www.christianpankhurst.com/jv.html?w=aahsp4&p=SAFCCC
      The world is changing and a new wave of heart-centered,
      heart directed leaders are emerging to have a monumental
      impact on the times that lay ahead. Isn't it time you stepped
      away from self-doubt and stepped into your full greatness?
      Why not master Heart Intelligence, and not only turn your
      own life around, but lead others to do the same?
      Why not TRUST in your heart to guide you and to show you
      the way to experiencing profound joy, connection and juice?
      YOU can do this.
      I know Christian's program can help you do it. That's why
      his retreats have sold out all over the world and why nearly
      everyone comes back to continue their journey. There are
      people who book out their entire year's schedule in advance
      to not miss a single training - his guidance is THAT good.
      Make the choice today to get started. Don't wait another
      year to get all of who you are out and make a difference.
      I've heard that Christian's program will be open for only
      a very limited window, because he's including for the first
      and last time ever his SMALL GROUP residential 4 day live
      retreat. Only 30 people MAX per event and there are
      only a limited amount of weekends available (he does them
      all over the world).
      So go enroll now:
      http://www.christianpankhurst.com/jv.html?w=aahsp4&p=SAFCCC
      Here's to your new life
      Sincerely in Spirit,
      Sharon
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      2/14/2011

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      HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY!
      Hopefully each n everyone has or had someone with whom to shar' loving moments, thoughts, conversations, emails, IMs today!  If not know that you are loved, regardless!  Here's believing LOVE'S energy in some way shape or form finds you today even if only via this blog!
      Meanwhile, if today is the day that really hurt, please know it doesn't have to be that way.... your pain no longer needs to be prolonged....please, reach out for help by contacting SharonAFisher@ComfortCoachingConnection n begin the process to HEAL YOUR BROKEN HEART WITH SELF-LOVE.
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