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UHS- Unsolvable Heavy Seriousness

7/8/2019

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UHS- Unsolvable Heavy Seriousness

                                                      UHS
                                       Unsolvable Heavy Seriousness
Uh, is defined as an expression of hesitation. We hesitate when we are unsure, confused or lost etc.  Usually, because one part of us is not in agreement with another part of us. For example, one part wants to be in a relationship and another part does not. 
When we have a very serious problem it appears to be Unsolvable. It becomes a mental cobweb of intertwined, confusing, negative, stuck in the energy of the problem labyrinth, which seems like there is no way to get out of it. This makes the Seriousness of the situation feel Unsolvable in nature. The mind becomes consumed by it and we can get frozen by our focus on it. The problem becomes so Heavy we get totally stressed out, extremely anxious and paralyzed until we come up with a way to stop focusing on the challenging issue. We can simply let go of the obsessiveness when we are reminded that in every moment, we have a choice between fear or Love. Our beliefs about the problem as being Unsolvable represent the fears that have been keeping us in the mental turmoil. Once we have faced them by Acknowledging their voice, we can Allow them to just be and get out of our head by asking “What would Love choose?” This inquiry is the portal to drop into your Heart space of inner wisdom where the Heavy Seriousness that you thought Unsolvable will open up to possibilities.
Most have heard our parents, educators etc. say “Use your head!” or “Think about it until you figure it out!” These are actually beliefs. Many Spiritual teachers instead would say “What does your inner wisdom say?” or “Listen to your Heart!”, which are based on the beliefs that we all have a place of knowing aka Divine guidance within us.
As humans our first go to is our logical, mental thinking process. This is a space of both negative and positive thoughts created by different parts of ourselves. Hence, an arguing match or committee meeting reigns in attempts to figure out the solution to what presents itself as an Unsolvable Heavy Seriousness. I am not saying that financial, health or relational challenges are not serious in nature. I am saying that there is an answer, such as a change of perspective, which will Allow one to shift out of the energy of the situation for transformation when we let our intuition and Heart lead the way aka Love’s choice.
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Meant To Be?

4/29/2015

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And so I have learned: Worry & doubt as well as other "negative"/low vibrating energies are in and of themselves forms of resistance. For example: On my journey to become more intuitive, if I had held onto doubt, {which looks like: "How come everyone else "sees", "hears", "feels" etc. something during a meditation process, & I don't; more false evidence in my story file of "What about me" life theme} I would have continued to block myself from a similar experience. Just being Aware that my self doubt was what was actually holding me back opened me up to letting it go. Reminder: We are the ones who keep ourselves from being all that we can potentially do, be, or  become. If you are unhappy YOU are the reason so let go of blame, shame, guilt and non forgiveness etc. or you will be staying right where you are. And just because you consciously think you have doesn't mean you subconsciously have.
True, what we have planned may not come about for reasons beyond our understanding, beyond our control as we are among other co-creators fulfilling THEE Creator's design. However, we are given breath every moment to begin again, to create how we desire our life to be from where we are by allowing FAITH to be the bridge away from fear, {helplessness and defeat} and cross over to where we want to be in the essence of Love! 
Don't depend on hope. Jim Carey said at the Maharishi University 2014 commencement ceremony;
" Hope walks through the fire and Faith jumps over it." Hope is more of a passive energy. Don't stand in the sunshine and hope not to get burned on a scorching hot day. That is not hope that is ignorance. Hope is beneficial to inspire our intentions, yet action is the element missing from hope. Let hope be the starting gate, a signal that it is time for the activity to begin. Hope is the springboard to get us over the hurdle, beyond the egoic threshold trying to keep us safe, while scared to move beyond our comfort zone.
Faith is the knowing, believing, and the Trust that what is meant to be is more than existing frozen at the starting gate. What is meant to be must not be another a passive energy otherwise known as not taking personal responsibility for where we are. Meant to be is the finish line of the race that has already taken place. Meant to be means it is time to begin the next event in the race. Meant to be indicates we have moved forward; maybe by forcing our self to jog along or struggling to even keep one foot ahead of the other rather than actually running. Nevertheless, we must keep moving forward by crossing that bridge to Love even though circumstances other than what we anticipated showed up for some reason.
It all comes down to personal choice. Do you even want to be in the race? If not chances are you aren't. How do you know if you aren't? You aren't if you are sitting in the bleachers as a spectator watching others manifest their dreams. Also, symptoms tell you. Are you exhausted {aka lack energy} , maybe even sick and can't even think about participating in the race today? Have you totally given up on even entering another race {aka are depressed, feeling helpless,apathetic} ? If you aren't ready to participate now, please, don't beat yourself up for you are right where you are meant to be, for NOW. Simply, Acknowledge where you are and if you don't like what you see course correct. Maybe you have been running around the same track countless times when actually you have desired to run cross country. Maybe it is time to relocate to a new track.Maybe it is time to stop jumping hurdles and enter the pole vaulting event. Maybe it is time for a slow and steady pace. You know what is best for you even though you may have temporarily become disconnected from it. You can reconnect by getting out of your head and become centered in your Heart. Christian Pankhurst said: "One of the most important philosophical "keys" to becoming Heart Intelligent: Total and compassionate self-acceptance. It's only when we accept who we are as we are right now, without making who we are wrong, can we open a space for true sustainable change to occur."  What change would you like to make? Not sure? Well, to get you started here is one of my coaching AIDEs {Assistant Indicating Desired Evidence, my acronym for tool }. Do yourself a favor and make time to give this worksheet some attention. If you would like some help you know where to find me!
Sincerely in Spirit,
Sharon

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Upsets Challenged

4/21/2015

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True! So when someone or something pushes your buttons, triggers you to become reactionary rather than responsive {e.g. "he hurt me" "they made me so mad" "It's her fault"} notice what got stirred up within yourself. Where in your body do you feel it? What is the feeling? What thoughts do you have going through your mind in regards to the situation? Be honest & don't deny or avoid your thoughts & feelings, yet be gentle with yourself. You can deal with this immediately or stuff it back down, ignore it etc., but be assured if you do that you will be given another opportunity to deal with this challenge. This will continue until and unless you acknowledge it. Now that you have the Awareness be willing aka allow & welcome another opportunity to show up so that you can practice undoing, releasing, letting go of such exterior stimuli having power over how you feel. YOU are the one who holds the power! If you believe the thing or person in your outer world does then you are holding yourself in a victim mentality giving your power away,again to it or them. By being mindful you can detect you are about to be triggered before actually becoming fully charged. Again just notice your thoughts & feelings as you go about your day. Notice if you start to feel anxious just thinking about your boss approaching you, or if you are anticipating a run in with your hormonal teenager, dread doing a task you really don't want to tackle. What is the fear? That fear has already become active before the real situation presents itself. Fear created in your mind. If you have no clue, get out of your head & into your Heart to find the answers from the place of wisdom within. Core wounds and root issues, the foundation of your fears, are in your subconscious just waiting for attention.This is why something is upsetting you. By giving it attention you are "self correcting" hurt, frustration, anger etc. that has energetically been trapped inside you for a very long time. Once you address it completely it will no longer upset you and you will no longer blame someone or something for it. For example: if you are jealous you may blame it on someone else, their actions. Sure perhaps they did something you aren't pleased with, however you are responsible for how you react/respond/feel/think about their behaviors. Can you change them? NO! Can you change you? Yes, only if you choose to. So focus on your jealousy. Jealous is a symptom, so what does it want you to become Aware of? What makes you feel jealous as a result of their actions? You will find that you may have thoughts like; "she is more attractive, smarter, more successful  than me; "he pays more attention to, or spends more time with her" etc. and all other such conscious thoughts you are Aware of. But what is underneath those thoughts? What is hidden in your subconscious in regards to the situation? Feelings of lesser than, feelings unworthiness, feelings of insecurity, abandonment, betrayal, low self esteem etc. Depending on how deep the "wound" you will begin to alleviate it and provided you stay with it you will reach a point where it no longer upsets you at all. "It is no longer needed because the lesson is complete." Remember you are hurting yourself by not addressing your hot spots within.
If you'd like my coaching NAB AIDE to assist you just email me & I will reply with it attached. Additionally, if you want even more support on an energetic level I invite you to consider a phone proxy Emotion Code session. Do what feels right and necessary to deactivate the upset in a healthy way before it escalates into even more stress. Stress is the #1 contributor to illness and disease! Give yourself a huge dose of Self Love, right now, TODAY by reaching out for support!

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Honor by Appreciating

3/30/2015

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  When was the last time you were Appreciated?
  Who appreciated you?
  What were you Appreciated for?    
  How was the Appreciation shown?
I think the biggest part of this world's problem is due to lack of Appreciation. So many are of the me, me, me mentality; give me, pay attention to me, what's in it for me mindset. This is all related to the Ego's attempt to keep us separate from each other; protecting ourselves beyond normal personal boundaries intruding into the subconscious's reactionary mode of past experiences. "Me" is a pronoun, the object whereas "I" is a pronoun, the subject. "Me" therefore requires someone or something outside of itself to fulfill it. On the other hand "I" is the subject and is internally empowered by self. The difference between being a victim and being a co-creator & leader of your life.
What can you do today to show your Appreciation for someone or something in your life? How can you be a leader model by showing Appreciation to/for your children, your partner, your friends etc? If you can't think something related to one of those, what about yourself? What can you Appreciate about yourself in this present moment? Appreciation is a component of Self Love and is different than the me, me, me mentality. Many have been taught it is a selfish gesture to put self first and this is entirely different from being a conceited person who is full of their self. The difference basically boils down to compassion, empathy and honor.
As I began my day, I recalled how touched I was by my son Kamaran & his girlfriend, Shelby last night.  I was feeling Blessed by huge Appreciation and let it spill over into writing about it:       
          HONOR

© March 30, 2015 Sharon A. Fisher
   Dedicated to Kamaran & Shelby

I AM honored by your respect!

I was honored by your invitation to dinner;

              Honored by:

Granting me the front seat,

Consideration while exchanging conversation,

Your thoughtfulness when deciding on menu items,

Your good manners n kindness,

Your generosity to treat by paying for my meal,

You patiently waiting until I was safely in my home.

Your time to be with you in your presence.

I AM honored to be your Mother!

It is an honor, @Kamaran having you as a son,

It is an honor, @Shelby to share part of life with you,

I AM honored to be Loved n to Love you!

We complain when things don't go our way, way more than Appreciate & express it when things do go our way. Taking things & especially people in our lives for granted is pretty much is the reason why. In other words, we give so much more energy to pay attention to our dislikes than focusing our attention on Appreciation. Is it any wonder that happiness seems to be so far out of our grasp? Is it any wonder the Ego keeps on wanting more & more until it can be happy? Is it any wonder we don't feel worthy?
I don't know about you, but I know I prefer to focus my energy on Appreciation everyday!
What does expressed Appreciation look like?
Verbally expressing it to someone, Writing a note, sending a text, FB a message or share a post you Appreciate. The simplest action of expressing thanks for being you, or for lending a hand etc. If you find this hard to do just for a moment think about what your life would look like if nothing or no one else existed but you. Who or what would you miss the most? Now with that in mind bring it back into your Awareness and speak to it from your Heart. If you have actually lost a loved one or pet, rather than focusing on the missing & sadness bring them to mind & remember a Joyful memory associated with them into your Awareness.
Appreciation is a wonderful way to raise your vibration & theirs.

I know we all have many things in our lives to Honor by Appreciating.

Sincerely in Spirit,
Sharon
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Choice

2/7/2015

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As a child many  of us didn't feel we had a choice as it was "Do as I say" "Because I am the boss" "Because I said so". I heard these very words from my  Dad, God rest his soul, who was an autocratic disciplinarian. A quick digression: A formal public apology to the few of my 8 children who experienced a learned discipline of soap in the mouth, which I learned from my Dad to do if one used a bad word or spoke back.
Young children can learn they have a choice by letting them pick out what they want to wear without criticism. When I was little my Mom, Bless her heart would  not allow me to wear red with pink & most often picked out what I was to wear.Also,food was put on my plate & I had to eat everything on it, which I did but not with out gagging, attempting to hide it in a napkin {until thank God for my dog LOL} or nearly falling asleep over my plate before being excused from the dinner table. The #1 reason why I hated vegetables until well into adulthood. As an adult when I realized I had a choice rather than not doing something because I thought I should {aka other people's rules} I couldn't make up my mind because I was so afraid of making a mistake, a wrong decision. Over the pass few yrs. while on my healing journey & creating Comfort Coaching I learned decisions come from the head & choice comes from the Heart. Additionally, in each moment we have the choice, we have free will to do what we really desire. If you don't believe this then you are actually blaming someone or something outside yourself for your circumstances aka being a victim. Giving you power away rather than being EMPOWERED! Which do you choose?
So if you are a People Pleaser then you are making choices based on others agendas. Most likely giving away so much of yourself that you feel depleted. It is very  important to end this way of life as eventually you may become very resentful and or physically ill etc. If you recognize this pattern in yourself and truly desire to transform it you can. I would be honored to assist either as an Awareness coach, Certified Emotion Code Practitioner or both. Just take the next step forward & call me at 607-204-0680 for your FREE Self Love Awareness Session.
Sincerely in Spirit,
Sharon

Photo credit: Gregg Braden
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Word Power

1/14/2015

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How do you speak to your children, your pets, family members or even your own internal mind chatter? Please watch this short video {scroll down to end of blog} for proof as to the effect your words have, the power your tongue & voice have on the affect of the recipients. " Sticks and stones will hurt my bones but name will never hurt me" is so NOT true! If you were not spoken t o lovingly as a child I guarantee unless you have done some type of "correction" you have trapped emotions related to past experiences which are impacting your Self esteem, Self Love & Personal Peace! It's never too late to change so what do you choose to do about it? Please, don 't let the rest of your life be tainted by your past! Please, be more Aware of how you speak to others & of your own internal dialogue! A huge step to " Live Your Life In Holistic Harmony!"

If you need support & help options are available!
For the rest of the day just monitor, be Aware of the thoughts in your head & the words that come out of your mouth. You will be amazed by your observations!
Then think back to the video about the rice and you will know what you are creating as a result. Do you like what you have witnessed & are creating?
Hopefully, next time you are about to react to your child spilling a cup of milk, your pet getting muddy paw prints all over your clean kitchen floor, or your partner annoying you, you will learn to hold your tongue, count to 3 and respond lovingly in kind rather than be verbally abusive.
Sincerely in Spirit,
Sharon
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Gratitude

1/10/2015

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Gratitude is like a dimmer switch....the more you turn it up the brighter you life becomes! You will actually have more Awareness of things to be grateful for. "Try it you'll like it". It is so easy just have to remember to do it. The more you do it the more you'll do it. LOL. So often we take things for granted e.g. our breathe. In 2014 especially I have seen in an instant how quickly, how dramatically life can change. So if you don't know where to start, especially if you are having a challenging day; start by saying something I learned from @Access Consciousness: "How does it get better than this" {rather than focusing on the challenge at hand}. Then begin to say all the things you are grateful for e.g. I AM grateful for my eye sight, my ability to speak, my warm home, food on my table etc. Guaranteed your energy will shift. When you do this you will be able to Acknowledge how much is truly taken for granted.  If for some reason you don't have the above mentioned things there is something or someone you can be grateful for. If you struggle with this I highly recommend some Emotion Code sessions because I bet you have a Heart Wall keeping you from appreciating what you do have to be grateful for.This is a handy 24/7 tool to raise your Spirit no matter what you are experiencing in the moment.  So if your life is dull, boring, dark etc. brighten it up, let the Light shine in by adjusting your personal dimmer switch. Let me know how this works or if it doesn't work for you. You know where to find me LOL!
Sincerely in Spirit,
Sharon
Enjoy Melody Beattie's words about Gratitude:
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"The Person In Front of You"

1/2/2015

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I know many think respect needs to be earned as heard from the mouths of my own babes in the past and many adults who are quick to react & judge others. It breaks my heart when I hear a derogatory remark about someone, self included {I know the rule is "don't take anything personally, yet we will until we learn how not to}. Examples of non sugar coated remarks are; "He's a dirt bag",  "She's a bitch" or " They are weird" etc.  These crude & cruel, {albeit very authentically purged in the moment} remarks are judgements. It could be argued that me making that statement is also a judgement. However, there is a huge distinction. First, we are all entitled to our own opinions, likes & dislikes that are based on our values of "right" & wrong"& "good or bad" according to what we have learned.I have learned that a judgement is otherwise known as a conclusion, a formulation of a like or dislike which extends to holding that personal belief against another, which is where the presenting issue is. However, the deeper real issue is that the person n front of you, who you are judging is actually a reminder, an in the moment manifestation,a reflection of something inside of you, which you are unconscious of that bothers, hurts or triggers you for some unknown reason. This is most likely an indicator of a trapped emotion. An old emotional energy trapped within your body that wants to be Acknowledged. To better understand your reaction to the person in front of you simply asks yourself: "What is that person in front of me setting off within me?" ,"How do I feel?" "Where in my body do I feel tight, tense, etc?" "What thoughts crossed my mind", "What does this situation remind me of?" Once you have more Awareness around your own experience you will be able to Allow situations in the future to not upset you, be more responsive rather than reactive and not blame the person in front of you for being who they are. When one Allows another to have such power over their reactions it is very dis-empowering to Self. Caveat: Realistically, don't expect this process to be a one time deal. Additionally, you may need support in making this change. If so you know where to find me www.ComfortCoachingConnection ;) .
In the meantime,
even if you don't like the Person in Front of You: Be respectfully compassionate or else you are hurting both yourself and others!

I was inspired to write this blog today after reading a regular email I receive daily from www.Heavenletters.org. Below is a copy with their permission if you care to entertain a different perspective of The Person in Front of You.
Sincerely in Spirit,
Sharon
 
Heavenletter #5152 The Person in Front of You, January 2, 2015
God said:

When you are loved by the Creator of the Universe – and I most assuredly do love every which one of you – how then can you be anything less than gracious to everyone you meet? The only way you can be less than gracious is that you forget to be gracious. You forget that I have assigned you as the Welcomer of All in the Universe I created. This isn’t an assignment to take lightly. A Welcomer welcomes. That’s it.

The welcoming does not depend upon superficial impressions. It is not dependent upon your mood. It does not depend upon how much you have to do. It depends upon nothing but your willingness to act on My behalf.

And, so, you are to welcome everyone with good grace and without petulance or grievousness or impatience or haste. Whether you spend one minute or forty-five minutes, you pass on a gracious welcome. What good is a Welcome to the Universe without graciousness? It is no welcome at all.

Impatience isn’t welcoming. Trying to change someone’s ways isn’t welcoming. You are not to welcome anyone by suggesting they enter another door. This isn’t about the one you welcome welcoming you. You are the Welcomer.

You do not have to say Yes to everything, yet you are to be gracious. That’s how it is. Whether you welcome one or a million to the world, you are gracious. You communicate welcome and not correction.

If you think this is difficult to do, then think again and learn to make it easy.

I ask you to uplift everyone before you. If you cannot uplift, then, at the least, you are not to put down anyone I set before you.
I set only treasures before you no matter how the person before you may appear to you. In any case, this position of yours is about you and not anyone else. I hired you in trust, and you are to reflect My trust and fulfill it. In you I trust.

Do you know what is less than graciousness? It is rudeness. Life can be lived very well without rudeness. And what is rudeness but impatience? Life can be lived very well without impatience.
The Welcomers that I hire have to be humble. They are to give service, kindly service, gentle service. It is a child of Mine that you are greeting. Hold gratitude and respect high.

Someone else may get away with overlooking the heart of another, but not you. You are to lift the eyes of another. This is incumbent upon you.

People are not fleas that you are to get away from you and consider disposable. Not one human heart is to be set aside. It does not cost more to be genial than impatient. It is a different energy. You can’t get away with impatience anyway, and, for Heaven’s sakes, why would you deign to choose impatience over geniality in the first place?

There is never an excuse for dismissing anyone as if he were insignificant. The person before you is worth everything to Me. Feeling grumpy is not a reason for you to ignore anyone’s worth. Having a headache is not a reason. There is no reason to forget your manners. Look, whatever you may feel at a particular moment, you can still be of good cheer.

Make living in the world worthwhile for someone else as well as yourself. I’m sure you are not telling Me that I am asking too much of you. I’m sure you’re not. Beloveds, this is the least I ask of you -- to be courteous. I would like to point out that the person you are greeting IS yourself.

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"Picture Worth a Thousand Words" Reaction:Thoughts, Feelings, Emotions

4/4/2014

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Photo credit: The New Vision
Before you continue reading any further, I invite you to recall your 1st reaction {thoughts, feelings, emotions} to this picture & jot it down.

Comments made on Facebook are very interesting and show how effective a visual is. Actually, the ones I saw didn't match mine at all. Here is my take, my reaction to the picture above: 
My first reaction was not that it was meant to be funny {I wondered how difficult it must be for the motorcyclist to drive safely}, nor was the cow being hurt {I figured its tail was being held so it would not fly up and obscure the driver's vision; its rear legs were tied so as not to flop onto the road and get injured} the cow's face certainly does not show signs of being stressed, nor was this awkward undertaking a joy ride for either the driver or the cow.  What came up for me was: What a very compassionate motorcyclist, he found a cow along the road {I seriously doubt he is stealing it}that may be injured but definitely not in a pasture where it belongs.  The rescuer is so daring and brave to help this poor innocent creature & return it to a safe place,hopefully its home away from traffic.  Amazing the conclusions one comes to about a pic!  It is so telling about what is inside us... & how we judge what is right or wrong, good or bad etc.  Its like seeing the cup empty, full, 1/2 full etc. Its about our personal perception.  After a 2nd look at the pic I thought: "Wonder where this pic was taken as it appears the traffic is going the wrong way." See what I mean, I just did it again myself LOL.
When we become the observer of ourselves we gain a great deal of
AWARENESS! AWARENESS about any of our MEPS {my coined term for Mental~Emotional~ Physical ~ Spiritual aspects of self} is the 1st step to transformation. Looking at a picture is one of the simplest tools one can use to gain greater insight to oneself. Coach's challenge if you choose to accept: Look at a picture that is very appealing to your aesthetic sense when you want to find comfort or Personal Peace. Look at a graphically disturbing picture if you are struggling with unpleasant feelings or emotions to stimulate the fullness of the feeling in order to release it. As you do either verbally aloud express what you think and feel. Keep doing it until it is gone. You'll know when it is gone because all the "negative"/ fear energy will feel like it has shifted to one of "positive"/Love energy.  Acknowledge and honor yourself  for whatever and ALL that showed up during this exercise for it is ALL part of YOU rather you like it or not. This ACKNOWLEGEMENT is a stepping stone toward ACCEPTANCE {Self Love} !
I hope this blog posting ALLOWED you more AWARENESS to your inner world! I pray this post inspires you to take a few minutes to send Blessings to all creatures especially to those without homes or from abusive ones. For any of my animal loving readers; I hope you didn't get any trapped emotions from viewing the pic at the start of this blog.  If so, I suggest you take the coach's challenge seriously into action and fully deal with the thoughts,feelings & emotions that came up so they can be released. If you have difficulty or need support in doing so I AM here to assist.
Emotion Code
If my human friends choose to only ACCEPT their point of view, I suggest taking a closer look at some core beliefs that surfaced while reading or became evident while viewing this picture or for not even considering the coach's challenge. Examination of these offer valuable information as to what is holding you back in various areas of your life. Remember,an open mind and Heart are the gateways to possibilities!
Self Love Awareness Life Coaching
 Regardless of your choices, I choose to hold all creatures in the Love of my Heart no matter where that is on your journey in life!  Knowing that as I continue to Spiritually evolve so shall YOU for we are ONE with ALL that is!
Sincerely in Spirit,
Sharon
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Word Power

4/1/2014

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PicturePoster credit Timeline Photos as shared on FB by Cindy Woodsmall.
My dad used to say "keep your words soft n sweet just in case you have to eat them".  This I accept as a belief and the poster guides one how to do such.  On the other side of the coin my dad used to say "little children should be seen n not heard"  No wonder so many children including my healing inner child have or had difficulty speaking up for what they want or need. If this is or has been a belief for you, you may have trapped emotions in your 5th chakra, the throat chakra. You may also be prone to attracting a bully or "allow" yourself to be abused by others in your life.  This is clearly a sign of lack of Self Esteem.

Self Esteem
Parents, if you want what is best for your child check in with yourself to see if you are being a control freak who doesn't permit your child to have a say or choice.   Be open to hear what they have to say as you set the rules of speech: "The words of the tongue should have three gatekeepers: Is it true? Is it kind? Is is necessary?" If you implement this at a young age you will be doing yourself a huge favor by keeping the lines of communication open especially for when they become teenagers. Personally, I'd rather deal with a terrible twos toddle than an uncontrollable, rebellious, pubertal, hormonal teen. Handling teens is a whole different dimension and conversation. For now let me just say if you don't have emotional maturity to control yourself n Personal Power your teenager will walk all over you. Love & Gratitude Andrew for your strong Personal Power n discipline. Let it be known Personal Power does not mean violent physical, mental, or emotional abuse!
Remember, it all begins with YOU! So if you want to "Live Your Life in Holistic Harmony" take notice of the words that come out of your own mouth! Young children learn from their parents', caretakers' , teachers' etc. volume, tone and meaning of words, because those words convey both attitude n meaning. So choose your words consciously rather than being a stimulated, reactionary, automated subconscious robot.

Clearly, the world is in desperate need of healing!  How much would it cost you to hold your tongue, to let the gatekeepers of true, kind n necessary words be your MO {method of operation} during your daily life?
Today may your genuine kind,true,and/or necessary words:
Praise someone for a job well done.
Thank someone for doing something appreciated.
Bless someone for being supportive.
Give hope n inspire those frail in faith.
Allow another to know how valued they are.
Most of all....
May the words you speak starting today carry the sound vibration of
LOVE!
If you find yourself unable to control your style of reacting to what others say or do & desire a new perspective on how to handle the situation, I invite you to

Gift yourself n the world!
If you find yourself afraid to speak your mind for fear of upsetting someone else, I invite you to create Personal Peace n Self Love.
Self Love Emotion Makeover Session

Sincerely in Spirit,
Sharon
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    Sharon A. {Comfort} Fisher
    Certified Emotion Code Practitioner
    Raise your vibration by releasing old emotional baggage.

    Certified Life Coach

    Solution Focused
    HEAL YOUR PEOPLE PLEASING TRAITS WITH SELF-LOVE
    Relational
    Spiritual
    Grief
    Human Developer
    "ARCHAEOLOGIST
         OF THE SOUL"

    Welcome....
    I've always said I am not a surface person. Whenever I meet someone I always want to know what makes them tick, how they experience life, where they've been & where they're headed in respect to the emotional & spiritual aspects of their life. 
    My life has evolved
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